Posts Tagged ‘responsibility’

9
Mar/11
21

Taking Responsibility

Last week a parcel delivery truck raced down our street, a very short street with three houses on each side.  I remembered it from every other night because the truck was traveling so fast, and right in front of my house, there was a loud bang as he passed.  I looked out to see if the truck had hit something, but I saw nothing and the truck continued down the street as if nothing happened.

The next morning my neighbor met me at the end of my driveway in tears.  He informed me that last night a parcel truck struck and killed his dog, right in front of him while he was outside playing with the dog.  The truck never stopped or acknowledged hitting anything.  The dog was known and favored by all of our neighbors, and the family is devastated.

Later that day a parcel truck delivered a package to my house.  As the driver exited his truck, I met him in the driveway.  I asked him if he was the same driver from the previous night, and he indicated he was.  I asked him if anything unusual occurred as he passed my house the previous night, and he indicated nothing unusual.

I told him as he passed my house the night before, there was a loud bang, loud enough that I heard it as did my other neighbor who was in his house.  He then acknowledged that he remembered hearing something, but thought that a package had fallen in the back of his truck.

I informed him that the loud sound he had heard was his truck striking and killing my neighbor’s dog.

A week has gone by, and the same driver has been delivering packages to our neighborhood since I spoke with him.  While not necessarily his fault that the dog was killed by his truck, one would think he would be gracious enough to either stop at their house and talk with them, or send them a note or something acknowledging what happened and their loss.

Nothing.

Worse, his racing down our street has not stopped.  One would have thought after learning that he struck and killed a dog that he should slow down, especially since there are small children playing in our neighborhood, but that hasn’t resignated with him either.

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30
Nov/10
1

Accountibility Redeemed – Just another night of damage to our vehicle

Quietly eating dinner tonight with my family, the waiter came to our table and asked if we own a certain vehicle in their parking lot.  I could tell before he even came over this wasn’t going to be good news.  The waiter told us someone just struck our vehicle in the lot, and then drove away, leaving our damaged vehicle behind.  The waiter also told us two other customers witnessed the crash, and both wanted to stay to be witnesses.  They even got the plate and a good description of the driver.

One witness told us the young lady backed into our car, making it move, and then walked over to our vehicle.  She shrugged her shoulders, walked back to her car, and drove away.

I am happy to report that while having our vehicle damaged yet again (this makes like five times), for the first time, the plate the witnesses provided along with their description lead to the young lady being arrested.  She is at the police station as I write this blog – horray !

Had the witnesses decided not to get involved, commonplace in today’s busy society, we would simply have found our damaged vehicle for the fifth time, and suffered another hefty repair bill (our auto body shop knows us all too well).

To anyone who witnesses something and chooses to step forward to help make those less responsible to be held accountable, thank you!

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2
Sep/10
215

Twelve Traits – The Source

As a few individuals accurately identified, the source of these traits instilled in young men worldwide is….

The Boy Scouts. http://www.scouting.org/

Trustworthy    Loyal     Helpful     Friendly     Courteous     Kind

Obedient     Cheerful     Thrifty      Brave      Clean      Reverent

In fairness, as I only have boys in our family, I was told the Girl Scouts have a very similar character building motive for young woman.  In searching for these traits tonight, I was moved by an article I found by Janet Lombardi posted on the Girl Scout’s website.  Although directed towards girls and the Girls Scouts, it is easily gender neutral in the message.

From her article “Sowing the Seeds of Character” -

Q: Why is character-building so important today?
Our children are getting hit with a huge barrage of mixed messages. They are confronted with peers, not-so-great adult role models, and media where they hear about top CEOs who value money more than ethical behavior. They are receiving unfiltered information from the Internet, song lyrics, video games, and TV. Character-building is nothing new. Socrates and Aristotle spoke about it. They believed that “You are what you are because of what you do repeatedly.”    Exactly!

Q: How does moral intelligence connect to character?
Moral intelligence consists of seven essential virtues—empathy, conscience, self-control, respect, kindness, tolerance, and fairness—that guide your character. Once you plant the virtues, you can teach girls the skills to empower them so they can provide their own moral compasses.”   We seem to only hear about moral compasses when they seem to go astray.

Here’s the link to her entire article:  http://www.girlscouts.org/for_adults/parenting/articles/sowing_character.asp

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