Unfortunately, younger generations have been exposed to the same lifestyles in society, where values, pride and ethics have become qualities of the past, replaced by the “get whatever I can at any cost” mentality.  Chivalry, manners and respect have joined the growing list of nearly extinct qualities as well.

While camping this past weekend I read a great article that addressed the issue of raising children, and things a parent could choose to do to instill values and social responsibility.  I strongly agree with the approach that the way we raise our children will be the only way we bring society back on track.  I don’t find myself overly religious, and I respect the individuality of choice when it comes to one’s religion, or no religion at all.  The article I read, while included in a Catholic publication, isn’t specific to any one faith, but rather identifies seven areas a parent can make a significant positive impact on their children and their future.

“Point One – a parent needs to choose to have dinner as a family as many days as possible.  Sitting and eating together has profound cultural and ethnic repercussions in children’s development and perception of what the home means to them.”

“Point Two – the choice to belong to a parish and practice the faith regularly has long-term positive effects.  Living out one’s faith as a family directly correlates with a child’s later sense of self-worth and ability to avoid drug abuse and teen pregnancy.”

“Point Three – a parent can make a big difference by choosing every night to review a child’s homework. Here, children learn they are a priority because you care about their work, achievements and struggles.”

“Point Four – a parent must demand that a child shares the truth of his or her day and relationships.  As the child grows and later faces the harder decisions adolescence and young adulthood bring, this truth-based trust will be a bond in the family.”

“Point Five – every year, a family needs to schedule a vacation away from home that makes the child’s recreation the priority.  What wonderful memories childhood vacations can make, no matter what the destination.”

“Point Six – in many cases, a child benefits when a parent activity helps him or her establish a balanced schedule that allows for a team sport, personal hobby or artistic or musical talent.  Developing these skills helps foster a healthier sense of self-worth that translates into greater achievements in life.”

Point Seven – a parent needs to choose to require social skills and proper manners of their child, in the house, at school and in life.  A child who is required to be accountable for his or her speech and actions will develop a great respect for others and learn to take responsibility for himself or herself in any situation.”

The entire can be found at:

“Making Hard Choices To Help Our Kids.  Father Michael F.X. Hinkley, The Catholic Transcript, February 2010.